You're not alone in this, though it might feel like it.
There were many MANY writers before you, there will be many MANY writers after you, and there are many MANY writers right now struggling with the same thing.
So don't suffer alone and in silence. Ask questions.
Ask them anywhere, and keep asking, no matter how silly they seem.
Chances are, someone somewhere has figured out a way to solve your problem, and they might be willing to help. You never know unless you ask.
Plus, asking builds community. And we need community to support each other. Otherwise how will we survive??